I'm looking at a long arm kit from IRO the guys seem pretty helpful. I've put aside a budget for adjustable arms, trackbar and pitman arm bits aswell. I don't plan on selling my xj or getting rid of as its low mileage and is having LPG at the end if the month. So I guess a hack n tap is the way forward then.
The longarm kit that I put on my XJ from Rough Country was well made and flexed very well. It was easy to install aswell I had the whole lot fitted in about 3 hours.