With big engines you control both the outlet temperature and the inlet since you don't want to overcool the inlet.
The thermostat should always maintain and engine outlet of around 90 degrees. But depending on air flow the radiator will have a different cooling effect so the inlet temperature will be up and down. My thought was if the sensor was on the rad outlet it would turn the fan on when the engine inlet temperature started to rise above a set level. Say 90 degree out and roughly 60 degrees in.
you are correct in what you are saying, but most of these installations and O.E equipment the cooling effect of the radiator is known, thus the temperature where the sensor is placed can be set to meet the required operating temperature.
replacement radiators dont come with a cooling efficiency information list of what temperature drop is to be expected when run operating. If fitting after market monitoring then top top hose makes sense, with a fan cut on temperature of 95 to 100 deg C, and by that the outlet temp should be a 10 degree drop on average.
brazed tube and fin radiators give the best thermal efficiency in regards to cooling but are prone to fin damage. Alloy radiators will take allot more punishment but their efficiency is less hence the pack size is increased.
Stainless steel is even better and its physically stronger in so many ways allowing for thinner wall sections but it's cost prohibitive to make